Yes men remembering to give birthday wishes and getting the right gift is important and can also be overwhelming. Some people are really easy to buy for, some are much harder and then some men just don’t know how to shop for women altogether. Giving them birthday wishes first thing and making them feel special on their birthday is only half the battle when it comes to a women’s birthday so start taking notes.
While this may not apply to all women it certainly is pretty uniform in comparison to men who seldom care that much for their birthday other than wanting to do what they want to do on that day. Women want to feel like a princess and feel like they were cared for and thought of in such a way that if you fail, there will be havoc to pay. You don’t want to make a woman cry on her birthday and that’s why this post is all about shopping and giving birthday wishes to your special woman.
Women’s Birthday Wishes & Appropriate Gifts
If you are a guy that finds shopping for women an extremely tiresome and daunting task then you may even need to employ the help of friends or family in order to make this day right in her eyes. Giving birthday wishes is the easy part, but planning a spectacular day and getting the right present(s) is often a bit more challenging. Many men fall into the mistake of buying their woman something that they would also love, and while this can be done correctly most men fail at it. Don’t buy her a microwave, new steam cleaner vacuum 2000, or any other household items that basically say she needs to do more cleaning or is only good for household chores.
Birthday wishes and presents should be about how much you appreciate her, not giving her more tools to tidy up the home or other chores like food preparation. It’s not always about how expensive the gift is either, so don’t make excuses that you don’t have a lot of money because great gifts can be derived from creativity and just knowing how to shop. So if you cannot afford a piece of lavish jewelry, you can plan a day trip or a nice evening dinner, or something to remember a time you once shared, or even something she has been dying to have that’s within your budget.
Get a great card that is touching and will make her remember why she fell in love with you and provide extra tid-bits in the card to personalize & supplement the birthday wishes from the stock card. A birthday only comes every 365 days so she expects you to nail this holiday as well as Valentine’s Day because you get a lot of slack for the others. And if you need help for gift ideas and other preparation plans for birthday wishes don’t be afraid to ask for help because by doing so can mean the difference from being lectured about how inconsiderate you are, or really nailing her birthday and making the wishes truly special!